Newport woman 'heartbroken' after soil dumped on father’s grave (From South Wales Argus)
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Newport woman 'heartbroken' after soil dumped on father’s grave
12:10pm Wednesday 16th January 2013 in News
'DISRESPECTFUL': The mud covered grave of Laurence Flight of Newport
A WOMAN has told of how she was left heartbroken after she found a mound of earth dumped on top of her father’s grave.
Rebecca Davies, 32, of Gaer Park Avenue, Newport, lost her father, Laurence Flight, to cancer in July last year, and when she and her husband visited his grave at St Woolos cemetery last Friday they found a pile of earth deposited on top of it.
The earth had been dug from another grave next to her father’s which grave-diggers were preparing for a burial. Newport council said the soil was only on the grave for a short time while the burial took place.
Mrs Davies said that when they raised the issue with staff, she was told that it was policy and was asked where they expected the earth to be put.
The material has been cleared since they visited the site.
“I’m heartbroken,” she said. “To me that’s very, very disrespectful.”
Mrs Davies, who says she has complained to the council about the issue, says her father had died suddenly in the summer after suffering from cancer.
“We are just trying to come to terms with losing him and we are faced with this,” she said.
She said she decided to speak to the press because they didn’t want the same thing to happen to anyone else.
The earth could have been put onto a truck rather than on top of her father’s grave, she added.
A spokeswoman for Newport City Council said: “This time of year is particularly busy for the cemetery department, and when digging graves we have to place the soil to the side of the grave and in some instances this goes over neighbouring graves.
“We place boards under the soil to minimise any mess, as was the case in this instance.
“Council workers take great care when digging graves and we would like to reassure the family that there has been no damage made to the grave of their relative and the soil was only on the grave while the burial took place.”
Comments(7)
Mr Bump.
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2:46pm Wed 16 Jan 13
macbumble
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4:23pm Wed 16 Jan 13
macbumble
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4:24pm Wed 16 Jan 13
macbumble wrote:sorry ment fathers grave.
Usual practice in most cemeteries, do you think she noticed the soil was probably on the grave next to her husbands when he was buried.
rlewis
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10:48pm Wed 16 Jan 13
kalwales@hotmail.com
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6:59am Thu 17 Jan 13
totally donny
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7:38am Thu 17 Jan 13
kalwales@hotmail.com wrote:exactly, not nice to see, I wouldn't have expected to see something like that.
Come On guys see it from Both Sides, im sure we'd be upset if we were greiving :-(
the dennis says...
1:53pm Wed 16 Jan 13
i could understand her upset if it was placed on the grave for a week, but whilst the grave next to her dads is getting sorted, where does she think the earth would go?
We are running out of space to bury people just be thank full they didnt do it like other parts of the world and throw some random person with her dad.