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Mum's anger at hospital's baby ban

Hannah Hillier with son Breyen Hannah Hillier with son Breyen

A MOTHER discharged herself from hospital after staff refused to let her five-month-old baby, who is breast-fed, stay on the ward with her.

Hannah Hillier, 27, from Wainfelin, Pontypool, checked herself out of the Royal Gwent Hospital, Newport, after staff told her son, Breyen was too old to stay with her.

Mrs Hillier said staff told her hospital policy only allowed babies under three months to stay with their mothers.

Mrs Hillier was sent to the hospital for an emergency appointment after experiencing bleeding following a Loop Biopsy treatment to remove abnormal cells on the cervix.

She was told she would need to stay in overnight for observation and have an ultra-sound scan the next morning.

But when hospital staff said Breyen could not stay, Mrs Hillier felt she had no choice but to discharge herself so she could continue to care for him.

She will now have to wait for another appointment at the hospital which has delayed the treatment she needs.

She said: “I had no intention of ignoring the advice of the health professionals before me. However, I was made to feel that this was my only option if I wanted to continue to exclusively breast feed my baby.”

Mrs Hillier, who also has another son Declan, three, said she was not happy for her husband Thomas, 26, to bottle-feed Breyen while she was in hospital because he had never been fed this way before and it was likely to cause him distress.

She said the hospital’s policy contradicted the message promoted by the World Health Organisation, as supported by the government, which says exclusive breast feeding is recommended for the first six months of a baby’s life.

She said: “I am utterly disgusted at the treatment I received and felt discriminated against and denied of the treatment I required because of my choice to do the best for my baby.”

She said she was shocked to learn that the Royal Gwent Hospital has full accreditation as a baby-friendly hospital and according to UNICEF Baby Friendly Initiative has made a significant commitment to ensuring mothers and babies receive adequate standards of care to help them breast feed successfully.

She said: “On the evening in question they were not willing to respect my wishes.”

Mrs Hillier has now written to the hospital and Torfaen MP Paul Murphy with the hope of taking the matter further.

Limited space meant mum and baby couldn’t stay

A spokesman for the Gwent Healthcare NHS Trust said: "Due to a ward refurbishment we had very limited space and were unable to accommodate both mum and baby on this occasion. The situation has since been resolved but we do ask that patients make contact with us prior to their appointment so that suitable arrangements can be made. We are totally committed to supporting mothers who wish to breast feed."

Comments(13)

Stonebridge says...
4:02pm Wed 5 Nov 08

"Mrs Hillier said staff told her hospital policy only allowed babies under three months to stay with their mothers."
This seems to contradict the statement from the hospital that "We are totally committed to supporting mothers who wish to breast feed."

So were the staff telling lies? Is this (3 month rule) actually the policy? Is Mrs Hillier being uneconomical with the truth, or did she mis-hear?
Why didn't she inform the hospital of her needs? Was she asked to supply this information?
Loads of questions unanswered because the Argus has not bothered to ask them.

DG says...
4:43pm Wed 5 Nov 08

I wholeheartedly agree with Stonebridge. It's in the public interst to know if the "three months old" limit truly is policy, or if the staff were just using the old "it's policy" line to get the patient to stop complaining.

I've seen people "misinformed" by staff (in all types of jobs) often enough to disregard the possibility of Ms Hillier being mistaken about what she was told.

valleyite says...
5:04pm Wed 5 Nov 08

"The situation has since been resolved but we do ask that patients make contact with us prior to their appointment so that suitable arrangements can be made". How could she contact them prior to her appointment if she didnt know the outcome of her appointment and that she had to stay in hospital overnight.

Strider says...
10:04pm Wed 5 Nov 08

Stonebridge wards such as D2E are temporary closed and patients from B7 West(women's problems) are merged in with the baby ward B5 to name a few.. They only allow one parent to stay on wards D6 Sapphire and Emerald only

Each ward holds 3 - 4 bays six patients to a bay, A lot of the wards are currently mixed sex wards, and include Dementia and elderly patients awaiting a nursing home..

So are you suggesting kicking a pregnant woman out of B5 because she refuses to bottle feed the baby for one night.. Are Hannah Hillier's own wants and needs paramount?

The Three month rule is Policy!!!! Like lots of people Hannah Hillier is happy to accept a rule as long as it suits her!!!!


chesh says...
10:28pm Wed 5 Nov 08

I am confused - would the cot that a 3 month old and a 5 month old not be the same standard size provided by the hospital??????

HannahHillier says...
1:25am Thu 6 Nov 08

I am not being uneconomical with the truth. Just because I am a mother who has chosen to do the best for her children, it does not mean that I am uneducated, or that I mis-hear or misinterpret things that are said to me.

I was orignally told by the gynaecologist that it would be no problem for my baby to stay with me. But the ward sister came back with the 3mth policy. Do you honestly think that someone would mis-hear something like that and just sign out of hospital for the sake of it?

I have since tried to give my baby milk from a bottle just in case I needed to go back in to hospital, and he would not take it - this is very common in exclusively breastfed babies, something which you would have known, had you bothered to research it before posting your comment.

I was told that if my baby was 3mths old, then they would have accommodated him, but he was not, he was 5mths old. Absolutely no difference in terms baby care when exclusively breastfeeding.

I could not have contacted them to make arrangements as I was sent there as an emergency by my GP. I did not know that i would need to stay overnight.

I have since received an apology from the hospital and have been assured that a meeting is taking place next week regarding the policy. Yes POLICY!

Stonebridge says...
8:25am Thu 6 Nov 08

Wouldn't it all have been much clearer if the reporter in the story above had asked the right questions, both of the Hospital, and Mrs Hillier.
This is typical of the confusion and misunderstanding that arises from half-baked journalism.
Glad to see the record put straight.

Little Red Riding Hood says...
8:31am Thu 6 Nov 08

What on earth does what she named her children have to do with this story, just because you don't like the names she chose for her children it does not make her a bad mother. Breast feeding is hard work and when your trying your best to give your child the best start in life you listen to advise about things like the 6 month exclusive breast feeding. As the hospital said that they would have accommodated if the baby were 3 months old then that means that there was room but they were just being pedantic by not allowing Breyen to stay with his mother. Comments like that of Orson about bringing up the children happy, what planet do you live on, obviously Hannah is a good mother, you don't find many mothers that breastfeed exclusively in this country because its too much hard work having to be around the baby 24/7. I think that the RGH should be ashamed!

Stonebridge says...
8:43am Thu 6 Nov 08

One thing I would add to this whole sorry interlude.
When you have a problem with officialdom, hospitals, councils etc the first and correct route to redress that problem is with the organisation itself and its internal mechanisms.
As soon as you go to the press (was this necessary?) you get your story and details (and photo) dragged across the public gaze. Unfortunately, the press is only interested in selling papers and getting a good story. It's not interested in getting all the facts, or getting them right. So, people make up their minds on this issue without being party to all the information.
This is, unfortunately, the price you pay for going public.
Is the Argus going to do a follow up and put the record straight? Let's wait and see.

DG says...
9:46am Thu 6 Nov 08

I suspect that there's no chance that a big, bureaucratic organisation like the NHS would have done anything about this without the glare of publicity.

I totally support Mrs Hillier and admire her courage in coming forward with her story and dedication to doing the best for her son (who looks absolutely adorable!). I hope that this case will mean that other mothers won't be put in that position in future.


Hevsym says...
5:56am Fri 7 Nov 08

How about expressing her milk? She could have done this and the baby bed that would have been used for her baby could have been kept in the childrens' ward and could have been used for an ill child if needed, rather than run out of beds again!!!!!!!!!!!

Little Red Riding Hood says...
11:34am Fri 7 Nov 08

Hevsym, if you bothered to read Mrs Hilliers comment you would see that she has since tried her baby with a bottle and he refused it. I know a few women who have had the same problem with exclusivly breastfed babies refusing bottles, its understandable, they don't know any different they are just babies after all. No GOOD mother would willing leave her baby without food, and as such I think Mrs Hillier did the right thing discharging herself, I'd have done the same if I was in her situation. Lets hope the RGH sort this out so no other mother has to go through the same thing!

bingeupman says...
9:12am Wed 12 Nov 08

Breast is best - everyone knows that. Why can't we recognise the fact that breastfeeding mums have the right to feed their babies in public. It's nothing to be ashamed of ! The fact that we need a hospital policy for something so obvious is a sad indictment of South Wales society!

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