MICHAEL PEARLMAN SAYS: Gay footballers? So what, move on

A REMARKABLE occurrence last week as a professional footballer came out as a homosexual and the world didn’t end.

I make no mistake for banging this drum (again) as loudly as possible because I’m hoping this can be a genuine watershed moment for a sport still struggling along in a Draconian manner when it comes to embracing equality across the board.

Racism? Sure, racism is wrong, that won’t be tolerated, football has finally decided. We are all outraged at the recent footage of Millwall fans using ‘that’ word.

And women can like football too. That too is accepted now. Hell, England has a better female team than male when it comes to the national side.

But gays? In football? It would be too awkward, that seems to be the argument.

Too awkward for fans who wouldn’t know what was acceptable to chant (here’s a handy hint, nothing about sexual orientation).

It would be awkward too for the teammates, it’s the last bastion of sanctity for boys being boys you see, the dressing room. How could the poor mites cope?

Except last week a pro footballer came out and hardly anyone batted an eyelid.

Robbie Rogers, a USA international and one-time Leeds and Stevenage midfielder, wrote a blog announcing his retirement and revealing he was gay. The reaction was telling. People didn’t really care, because frankly, why would we? It’s his business.

Ex-teammates of Rogers took to Twitter in support of him, because, frankly, they didn’t really care either.

It’s 2013 and high time footballers could and should be able to live openly as a homosexual if they so choose.

With a zero tolerance attitude to terrace abuse – and I believe fans would self-police on this issue to a degree - and the certainty that his fellow players wouldn’t have any issue (see other sports), it’s time to end the last taboo.

Football isn’t always the easiest sport to like and admire on a personal level. Beginning to address this would help.

So thank you Robbie Rogers, now let’s hope more players feel able to follow suit.

Comments(11)

Mr G Went says...
11:50am Tue 19 Feb 13

You are right Mr P. We don't care, why should we care? The only reason we do care is if its rubbed in our faces (pardon the expression.)

Of course, terrace humour is one of the lowest forms of wit, and there is always someone ready to chant an opinion, hoping the 'plebs' follow suit.

Give me a 'C'....
Give me an 'O'....
Give me a 'C'......

Oh, I think you know where that's going!

Mr Bump. says...
1:22pm Tue 19 Feb 13

I'd never heard of this Robbie Rogers person before i read this article. Maybe that's why there has been so little reaction to it. Still lets hope he's a normal gay person, rather than one of those camp caricature gays that Gareth Thomas seems to be turning into, it's only a matter of time before he's mincing down the street calling people honky tonk like that Dick emery character.

D Taylor says...
5:34pm Tue 19 Feb 13

Ther have always been homo-sexual players in football. Everyone knows that. The question is should they have separate changing facilities?

The People's Republic of Newp says...
8:23pm Wed 20 Feb 13

D Taylor... I really hope you're being 'pithy'. The comments on this thread expose the latent homophobia that sometimes makes me ashamed to call this part of the world home.

D Taylor says...
10:05pm Wed 20 Feb 13

Well would you want to get undressed in front of someone who fancied your body? Thats' not homophobia, it's respecting the differences between us.

The People's Republic of Newp says...
11:59pm Wed 20 Feb 13

D Taylor wrote:
Well would you want to get undressed in front of someone who fancied your body? Thats' not homophobia, it's respecting the differences between us.
Ah, that old chestnut: the assumption that all gay men fancy all other men. Either you're exhibiting the very latent homophobia - and it is, have no doubt of that - I mentioned or you're quite the Adonis.

As much as it causes me no end of emotional pain I have come to the realisation that my form might not be the stuff of dreams for every homosexual man or heterosexual woman.

You could not be more outdated and foolish if you tried.

D Taylor says...
10:25am Thu 21 Feb 13

No I don't believe that all homosexuals are attracted to all other men anymore than I believe that all heterosexual women are attracted to all men. That's not what I said, is it? Don't twist my words.

D Taylor says...
10:29am Thu 21 Feb 13

As an afterthought if I had written "who may fancy your body" instead of "who fancies your body" would you be happy with that?

The People's Republic of Newp says...
9:00pm Thu 21 Feb 13

D Taylor wrote:
As an afterthought if I had written "who may fancy your body" instead of "who fancies your body" would you be happy with that?
Both statements are equally irrelevant. The (il)logical progression of your thinking is that the individual concerned would immediately give in to their carnal urges, with no regard for restraint or social niceties.

The more you dig, the more of a bigot you appear.

D Taylor says...
12:07am Fri 22 Feb 13

I don't for one minute believe that anyone would give into their carnal urges. I don't assume that homosexuals are any more likely to do that than heterosexuals are. The difficulty appears to be in your own mind since you keep assuming things which I have not said or even thought. Men don't normally share changing facilities with women. Is that because we think that people will give in to carnal urges? No, it's because we aren't comfortable with such an arrangement. So to with homosexuals. If you're not comfortable there's nothing you can do except avoid the situation if you can.

The People's Republic of Newp says...
12:53am Fri 22 Feb 13

I've misrepresented you, yes? Ok, then for clarity's sake please spell out precisely what it is you're suggesting.

To me, it seems you're espousing some bizarre sexuality-informed dressing room apartheid. I would love to know how you intend to enforce this revolutionary arrangement.

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